Sunday 17th February 2008 LENT II
Ms Jill Harris, PR/Fundraiser : West London Day Centre
Genesis 12 : 1 – 4a ; II Timothy 1 : 8b – 10 Matthew 17 : 1 – 9
‘Now the Lord said to Abram, Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. So Abram went as the Lord had told him.’
Yet it does seem that in losing the trappings of ‘normality’ there is for some people a greater freedom to engage with life.
Lord, take my words and speak through them, take our minds and think
through them, take our hearts and turn them again to your truth and
healing light. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Some weeks ago I had the experience of being in a Harley Street waiting
room. It was tastefully furnished, there were deep leather armchairs,
copies of Country Life magazine and (even in these days when we are
urged to reduce our carbon footprints) no less than six table lamps lit
up around the room.
As I looked at my fellow patients, I saw the usual expressions of
boredom and frustration – it was after all a waiting room, a
space between other things happening. I thought I saw on some faces a
look of entitlement – a distaste for waiting that perhaps
occupied my face also. I couldn’t help comparing the scene with
one I am more familiar with, West London Day Centre where I spend most
of my working week. West London Day Centre works with homeless people a
short distance down the road. St Cyprian’s has supported our work
generously and consistently, and it’s a particular pleasure to be
with you today.
The day centre is shabby (without being chic), it is untidy –
wherever the furniture starts off it seems to transmute somewhere else.
The colours are not too discordant, but although the centre is cleaned
every day it seems always to be covered in a kind of haze of grey dust.
There are certainly very few places coffee hasn’t been spilled.
But it was the difference in the faces that struck me most. At the day
centre there are certainly some with attitude – the placing of a
coat on a chair, or the way a request is phrased can trigger a
full-scale conflict. Some people are demanding – ‘I’m
in this situation and what are you going to do about it?’ they
may say verbally or non verbally. Some faces are worried, some
depressed, many have resignation written into them. When you have to
wait for everything, from breakfast to the shower to the laundry to the
loo, I guess you develop patience as a second skin. But – and
this is the difference that struck me most – so many of the
homeless people I have met have faces that are warm and engaging, open
and ready for contact. Unlike the faces in the Harley Street waiting
room very few faces wear an expression of entitlement.
It got me to thinking, why are homeless people so often open to
contact, ready to smile and speak, whether they know you or not? Why is
it so much easier to strike up a conversation in a homeless
people’s day centre than, say during coffee after church, at a
conference of professionals, or even at some social events? It’s
a question I have often pondered, and it doesn’t seem so far
removed from our Bible readings today.
They are all readings about encounter, about transcendence and
immanence, the glory of God meeting ordinary people face to face.
‘Now the Lord said to Abram, Go from your country and your
kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you.
So Abram went as the Lord had told him.’
God spoke to Abram, but Abram was able to hear. He was ready to
respond. Was this borne out of a deep inner attentiveness that he had
learned during his 75 years?
‘Jesus took with him Peter and James and John his brother, and
led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured
before them, and his face shone like the sun.’
Peter, James and John out of all the disciples were invited to witness
Christ’s holiness. Was there something in them that made them
ready to see the full scope of his radiance, ready to understand? This
encounter was not offered to all the disciples on that day.
‘Share in suffering for the gospel by the power of God,’
says Paul to Timothy, ‘who saved us and called us to a holy
calling, because of his purpose and grace.’ A holy calling. It
suggests that we too are invited into a relationship with the divine,
that our lives are also bound up with sacredness. How can this be? Is
there a way to move from the boredom and frustration of waiting into
something more alive and vivid, where we know encounter has taken place?
What if anything has this got to do with homelessness?
I’d like to tell you about two homeless people I have got to know slightly.
One, I’ll call him Malcolm, discovered several years ago that, in
his words, ‘my life was something less than I thought it should
be.’ He was in a job that didn’t use his gifts, living a
life that didn’t satisfy, and he decided not to tolerate it any
longer. He did what he really wanted to do – packed his bag and
took himself on a long walk round Portugal. For 18 months he slept
under the stars, he walked along coastal paths and experienced an inner
freedom he had not known before.
When he got back Malcolm kept on walking. He became homeless, took to
the road, and is one of our regular users at West London Day Centre. He
is well read, a thinker, an engaging and joyful individual. It is hard
to meet Malcolm and not feel better for it.
It seems to me that in Malcolm you meet someone who is true to himself,
who had the courage of his convictions and listened to his inner voice.
He didn’t compromise, however unorthodox his life turned out to
be. This strikes me, but what do know, as living close to the spirit of
truth.
Another man I met recently I will call Geoffrey. Geoffrey became
homeless late in life, in his 60s, no one was more surprised than him.
After his wife died, he explained, he gradually lost his way. He lost
his sense of purpose, he wasn’t coping, he lost his job and
finally his home.
‘But do you know,’ said Geoffrey, ‘I’m sort of
glad it happened. Does that sound strange? It’s as if I had to
reach rock bottom to start coming up again.’ Through homelessness
Geoffrey regained his faith in human nature. When I met him Geoffrey
was about to move into his own flat, to make a new start. He was
planning to do things differently this time, to make new friends and
let people into his life. Perhaps it was admitting to himself and
others the reality of his despair that was the beginning of change.
Perhaps this kind of honesty, too, opens us up to the grace and purpose
of God.
These two examples are not intended to make forced connections between
homelessness and spirituality, or to claim that homeless people are
readier than anyone else to encounter the divine in their lives. I do
not want to minimise the pain, trauma and stress that homeless people
experience, the sadness that accompanies so many on their journey, or
the dangers of living on the streets. People come to the day centre in
all sorts of conditions, men and women from this country and elsewhere,
and it is our privilege to help people get on to a firmer footing in
life, to find a place of greater security.
Yet it does seem that in losing the trappings of
‘normality’ there is for some people a greater freedom to
engage with life. When you only have yourself to offer the world you
can’t shelter behind possessions, status or responsibilities.
There are fewer places to hide.
And I wonder whether that is a challenge to all of us. To find greater
freedom by simplifying our lives. To attend to God by respecting our
inner selves, perhaps like Malcolm having the courage to do or say what
we need to do or say, or like Geoffrey to admit when we’re not
really coping. Surely these simple things are difficult enough.
Perhaps attending to God will mean engaging with that person in front
of us, or with the beauty of nature around us. It may mean looking for
a spiritual director, someone who will help us to discern where God is
for us right now. It will probably mean taking time to be quiet every
day, to pray and listen for the still small voice.
Where this leads will be different for each of us. We may find that we
want to review our activities, perhaps dropping some responsibilities
or picking up new ones. We may want to leave things exactly as they
are. For Christians it can be hard to let go of responsibility, we may
feel we are indispensable to God’s purposes. Perhaps in this we
must let homeless people show us the way.
Whatever steps we take, wherever they lead us, may we all find ourselves ready for the moments of encounter when they come.
‘Now the Lord said to Abram, Go from your country and your
kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you.
So Abram went as the Lord had told him.’
Amen